Masculine Integrity live class

Create YOUR OWN definition of fulfillment through emotional intelligence

After being left behind in multiple promotion cycles, years of being terrible with women, and half-assing my creative passions not thinking I was good enough, I realized at the core of what wasn’t working in my life was my lack of emotional intelligence.

Hey, my name is Victor. I’m a men’s emotional intelligence coach, meditation guide, writer, podcaster, speaker, and founder of the Emotion Dojo.

If you relate to any of my story, then you also don’t want to:

Continue feeling shamed for expressing any emotions, unable to open up
Let people down, fearful of taking courageous risks for yourself
Unable to ask for or receive help from others in case it looks “weak”
Be left behind or alone, or passionless

This is why I created this masterclass on The 4 Skills You Need To Lead Your Life With Masculine Integrity.

What the f*** does that mean?

It means creating congruence in what you say, feel, and do.
It means leaning into the strength of your masculine energy with the love of your feminine energy.
It means letting go of other people’s definition of identity, success, or fulfillment and creating your own.

In this 75 min live class (this is not just another one of those sales webinars), we’ll be getting real and working through the 4-step process (that you can use in your everyday) to create a new vision for your life.

In the class, I will help you….

Identify the GAP between where you’re at and where you want to be.
Maximize what you WANT to feel, while minimizing the impact of what you don’t want.
Create clear steps towards YOUR OWN fulfillment
How to surround yourself with meaningful relationships that will SUSTAIN your growth.

Since the start of the 2020 lockdown around the world, I’ve been running a weekly men’s group, called the Emotion D.O.J.O., and will share in the live class what we’ve learned since then…

Here's What Others Have To Say So Far!

I have always had a desire to be around another group of successful men (whatever definition of success you have) who are also emotionally aware so that we can learn and build each other versus being in competition with each other. I now have a support group with other men that I have a high level of respect for and it feels amazing to have that support instead of feeling like we are constantly trying to one up each other.

I have been a part of another men's circle for a few years now and even with them, I find it really fascinating to be a part of a container for Asian-American men. It feels great seeing other men who look like me hone their emotional intelligence together. I believe that this opens doors for more leadership from people like us in the future.

The Dojo provided a space where I can authentically connect with other like-minded men that look like me, to boost my own self development and build camaraderie with a tribe. I've really enjoyed being able to connect with other successful and well-rounded Asian men at a deeper level while strengthening my emotional intelligence.

Victor approached each session with an open and curious attitude, which helped me open up about my situation in life, and gave me a lot insight as a fellow Asian male. Through his support, I was able to muster up the strength to apply to and attain a job after a period of unemployment. His empathy was invaluable and I greatly appreciate our work together.

At a slow and steady pace, Victor taught me how to feel the emotion, and get to know it without expectation. Prior to Victor's coaching, I would let my emotions send me down a deep dark hole with no ladder or rope. After coaching, I think it's safe to use Victor's coaching as a metaphor for a ladder out of that deep hole.

I've been able to get to more graceful resolutions with my coworkers after having these sessions to process [my emotions] and apply the framework for the hard conversations.

[This men's group] left me surprised. This is the best emotional state I've been in for a while.

*I’ll share more about the Emotion D.O.J.O group program for Asian men after the class for those interested!*